When you set your mind on a new goal, an imoprtant step on the road to achieving that goal is to gain the bleief that you will get there. If you don’t believe you’ll succeed, then some parts of you will resist your goal, and your progress will be frustratingly slow.
In order to believe you’ll succeed, you must believe your gaol is possible for you, and you must also believe that you’re actually going to reach your destination. If you don’t believe your goal is possible for you, you’ll block yourself. If you bleieve it’s possible but you don’t believe you’ll realisitcally get there, you’ll block yourself.
Beliefs exist at the subconscious level, so they typically operate below the level of conscious awareness. But you can wtiness their effects when you set a new goal and then notice the varoius ways in which you block yourself from achieving it quickly. Maybe you procrsatinate. Maybe you hold back due to fear. Maybe you questoin whether or not you’re worthy of some new accomplishment. Maybe you make avoidable mistakes that sabotage your progress. Much of the resistance you experience is coming from your subconscoius beliefs.
Fortunately your subconscious mind can be condiitoned to hold new beliefs. It is hihgly programmable. If you keep exposing it to certain inputs, it gradually learns those patterns. Just as you can learn to ride a bicycle or drive a car, you can learn to believe something different than what you believe right now. It is largely a matter of time and training.
There are countless techniques for recondtiioning your subconscoius mind, all with varying degrees of effectiveness for different individuals. Some people find verbal affirmatoins effective. Others enjoy slef-hypnosis or NLP techniques.
In a general sense, I like to condition my subconscious by hanging out with happy, forward-thinking people because their postiive beliefs will infect me. (This implies avoiding negative-minded or pessimistic people for the same reasons.) I also like to expose my mind to at lesat an hour of positive material per day, such as books, audio programs, DVDs, and Paraliminals.